5 questions you should not ask

Has it ever occurred to you that you do not want to go to a family event for fear of various questions from relatives? Or avoiding a chat or a party for fear of slang? The scene seems familiar, doesn't it? No one wants to face you for fear of some words from your mouth, what could be more sad than this!

Questions about someone's weakness can cause anxiety or make him feel inferior. Although most of us do not want to face such questions, we need to be careful that no one else is hurt in the same way. Those who are intelligent ask thoughtful questions when asking questions. Knowing that which 5 questions intelligent people never ask will help you.

If you have a habit of talking about the appearance and weight of others, it should be omitted. Because there are so many good things to talk about. How you look, how much you weigh is not part of your concern. If you are concerned about their health and talk about weight, you need to keep in mind that a person's weight depends on a number of factors and can fluctuate up to six pounds a day. Weight loss will be followed by fatigue and constant tiredness. It is also dependent on illness and hormonal conditions, which make people completely helpless. Instead of asking someone about the reasons for the weight change, talk to them about something better which will help boost their self-esteem.

Everyone is doing something to survive. Your question should not include the question of earning money. There is no harm in not knowing how much money the another person is earning and there is no benefit in knowing it. Instead, focus on increasing the earnings. Even if you want to ask for the purest motive, you should refrain from asking how much money you are making.

This is a very personal matter for which no one's opinion or inquiry is required. It depends on a couple's decision and consent, multiple factors like age, health status and money. You have no right to ask a couple about their family planning. It is better to refrain from any such question.

Intelligent people acknowledge the fact that people have different timelines and have different lives, which does not always match their purpose. If he wants to let you know, he will let you know. Otherwise, it is wise not to be interested in knowing when someone else will be involved or when you will get married.

One of the most sensitive and harmful things to tell someone is how much they have achieved in life and what they do is just pastime, which has no financial value even if it keeps him happy. Asking this question is rude and completely inappropriate. If you want to know about their career plans, ask questions that express your sincere concern for them. You can say - ‘What project are you working on?’ Or ‘I want to know more about your work’.